I do wonder why so many people, including myself, are often compelled to do things we know will possibly hurt us or leave us humiliated. Sometimes it's quite obvious why we would do this there are some situations when you desperately need or crave to be hurt yet don't totally understand why. We often put ourselves in a position where this is exactly what will happen to us. You open and your mind and your soul and wait for a huge hit of hurt and a gentle hit of humiliation. Degrading but necessary.